He also weirdly implies that all men find the exact same kind of woman attractive, and all relationships have the same kind of dynamics, and no woman cares about a man’s attractiveness, and no woman has a sex drive like a man, and all women have less sex after marriage. At least that’s not the focus of this sermon. (Oops.)Ī couple obvious points that come up here: There’s an underlying assumption that it’s the woman’s responsibility to satisfy her husband and be eye candy for him, and that it’s her fault if he strays, and that it’s her responsibility to make him happy. It’s like they just hope no one will notice. Like I said, the video is no longer on the church’s website, but there’s no explanation for that deletion either. But it’s disturbing that not a single staffer at this church who knew what he was going to talk about talked him out of it. I can’t go through all the problems with his thinking here because it’s just… a lot. Scientists have discovered, by the way, a food that diminishes the woman’s sex drive. You know, my little boy said, “Why do girls wear makeup and perfume?” You say “Because they’re ugly and they stink.” You don’t want to be ugly and stink! You know, makeup! Makeup is a good thing. He has put a “divorce weight” on his wife! That’s how important this is! So how important is this? Let me tell you something: I have a friend.
But all I can say is not everybody looks like that! Amen?! But you don’t need to look like a butch either!īut you say, “How can I do that?” Oh, I’m so glad you asked that question! I’m so glad you asked that question! Because you’re in my office, you and your husband, and we’re talking about your marriage, and you’ve asked me this question about “What can I do about that?” All right, if you were sitting in my office, here’s the first thing I’d say to you - and boy, I hate to say this, this is why I don’t do marital counseling anymore - and that is… weight control. Most women can’t be trophy wives, but, you know, like her - maybe you’re a participation trophy. Now look, I’m not saying every woman can be the epic, the epic trophy wife of all time, like Melania Trump - I’m not saying that at all. So, okay, why is it so many times that women, after they get married, let themselves go? Why is that? Why do they do that?… You hear me? Don’t give him a reason to be looking around. (A longer version is here.)Īnd ladies, here’s the thing you need to know about men: Don’t give him a reason to be like this distracted boyfriend. This compilation below is already cringe-worthy, but I suspect some viewers might have a more visceral reaction to the kind of abusive, misogynistic messages he’s sending to women.
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